Hey there! I'm Sarah Holstra—I'm so glad you're here!

I help people make sense of their relationships, connect with themselves and God, and set healthy boundaries so they can experience the life and love they long for.

Finding Hope When Faith and Relationships Feel Complicated

Maybe you're struggling in your marriage or feeling lost in your faith journey. Perhaps church has become a source of pain rather than comfort, or you're caught in patterns of frustration and resentment that keep you stuck. You deserve a safe, grace-filled space where you can bring all of your questions, doubts, and struggles—and be met with compassion, not judgment.

How I Can Help

I offer counseling for individuals and couples who are navigating challenges in their relationships, wrestling with their faith, breaking free from codependency, or dealing with anxiety and depression. I'm a Certified SYMBIS Pre-Marital Counselor and specialize in helping couples build strong, Christ-centered marriages.

I also provide boundary coaching to help you discover, communicate, and enforce healthy boundaries that make your relationships closer and more life-giving.

And I'm available to speak at church and community events on topics like faith and mental health, boundaries, grief, forgiveness, and navigating conflict with grace.

There's nothing I love more than witnessing the transformation that happens when people discover their God-given strength and step into the fullness of who they were created to be.

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